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Intimacy Expert on an Open Heart (and way more) with Allana Pratt

Intimacy Expert, Allana Pratt is a global media personality who awakens open-hearted, unapologetic living after heartbreak. Her own custody battle inspired vulnerability and courage that landed her a featured weekly column on the GoodMenProject, featured as an Icon of Influence, and as Guest Expert on Huffington Post, People Magazine, Forbes, The Jenny McCarthy Show among other national media.
This Ivy League grad is the Author of 4 top-selling books, has interviewed Whoopi Goldberg, Alanis Morissette and Dr. Bernie Seigel and Hosts the edgy Podcast “Intimate Conversations” where listeners learn how to find the relationship they deserve. A certified coach, Allana was asked by Leeza Gibbons to coach her during Dancing with the Stars. With over 4.5 million viewers on YouTube, Allana is the go-to authority when struggling to trust again after heartbreak. She offers private coaching and retreats to support her clients have thriving intimate relationships with themselves first, which naturally attracts their ideal partnerships. Check out Allana’s amazing work at and on Youtube (with over 24,000 subscribers), just search Allana Pratt.
Warning: there’s some explicity langauge. If there are little ones around, you might want your earbuds.
Ladies and men, you are going to get soooo much out of this conversation. Allana is an intimacy expert at reconnecting to your own heart and learning how to move through past trauma and upset, to truly be able to connect and find the relationship of your dreams (starting with you). She talks about the concept of befriending your ‘little you’ and goes into the science behind healing trauma and what you triggers you most. You’ll also learn how to open (and close, if necessary) your heart and find the intimacy you’re seeking (which always starts with yourself).
Things We Learned From This Episode
  • Decide you are willing to go inside and come home to yourself to become your own best friend. It was there that Allana found the ability to unconditionally love her self (which she calls your ‘little you’) and unlock the door to true connection to the divine and so much more.
  • What you resist, persists. We are meant to move through emotions and use them as guides and tools. Everything is an opportunity to stay open-hearted and to choose being present to both sides of the moment; which can be bliss and fear.
  • In order to truly heal a past trauma or trigger, you must integrate and embody all 4 of these aspects: image, thought, body sensation and emotions. Focusing on only one or a few of these, for example, just talking about your emotions or creating a vision board, will not create the full healing you’re seeking.
  • Focusing on what you don’t want, locks it in and grows it. You want to choose from nothing and let go of resistance and attachment (this is one I’m always working on).
  • You can learn more about the emotional scale and code by Dr. David Hawkins at (mentioned in the interview).

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